These notes are to accompany Grace Rules, by Steve McVey, published by Harvest House Publishers, 1998

Notes for "Let’s Party"

Introduction:

Early in the ministry of Jesus, He and His disciples were invited to a wedding feast in Cana of Galilee where He performed His first miracle. At the request of His mother, who informed Him that they were out of wine, Jesus commanded the servants to bring him the huge clay pots that contained the water used to wash the feet of the guests and He turned all of it into wine to keep the party going! And when the guests tasted the wine, they were amazed and exclaimed, "This is incredible, usually the best is wine is served first and later after the guests have had a few drinks, the "cheap stuff" is served, but you saved the best for last!!"

When you think of God, are you more inclined to think of a party or a courtroom? Why? Jesus said He came to show us what the Father was like and one of the charges most often brought against Jesus was that He ate and drank with the wrong kind of people…the partygoers!!

"Man’s chief end is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever." What does it means to enjoy God? Enjoying God is an integral part of the life of one who is ruled by grace. Legalism knows little about enjoying God and resents those who do. Is it possible to glorify God without enjoying Him? I don’t think so…if we are not enjoying God, we are misrepresenting Him to others. To know God is to enjoy Him…any attempt to glorify Him without knowing Him, is fraudulent misrepresentation!

Identify some practical ways that a Christian may both glorify and enjoy God. Christians are both glorifying and enjoying God when they consent to allow Jesus to express His life through their bodies, regardless of the activity…if Jesus does it, God is glorified.

 

Read the story of the elder brother in Luke 15:25-32. "The older son was in the field, and as he came closer to the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing. So he called to one of the servants and asked what all this meant. The servant said, ‘Your brother has come back, and your father killed the fat calf, because your brother came home safely.’ The older son was angry and would not go in to the feast. So his father went out and begged him to come in. But the older son said to his father, ‘I have served you like a slave for many years and have always obeyed your commands. But you never gave me even a young goat to have at a feast with my friends. But your other son, who wasted all your money on prostitutes, comes home, and you kill the fat calf for him!’ The father said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours. We had to celebrate and be happy because your brother was dead, but now he is alive. He was lost, but now he is found.’"

List three characteristics of legalism seen in the elder brother’s life: 1) He separated himself from the younger brother because he did not live up to the standards of the elder brother 2) His relationship to the father revolved around "doing the right thing" and not breaking the father’s commandments…he knew no intimacy with the father because his whole focus was on behavior, and 3) He resented the grace that his father showed to the prodigal and pointed out the contrast of his own faithfulness. He couldn’t even call the returned son "brother" and referred to him as "your other son."

Can you identify with any of these legalistic characteristics? The father’s response to the elder brother was compelling, "We had to be merry and rejoice, for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live…!" When a dead person comes to life, that’s a reason to celebrate!! What does it say about us when our response is so muted when a person becomes a new believer?

Identify the elements of the party described in Psalm 100:1-5:

Shout to the Lord, all the earth.

Serve the Lord with joy;

come before him with singing.

Know that the Lord is God.

He made us, and we belong to him;

we are his people, the sheep he tends.

Come into his city with songs of thanksgiving

and into his courtyards with songs of praise.

Thank him and praise his name.

The Lord is good. His love is forever,

and his loyalty goes on and on.

Joyful shouting; glad service; singing; thanksgiving; and praising God for His goodness and everlasting mercy!

In the Bible, feasts and festivals were observed to commemorate or emphasize events in the relationship between God and human beings. In the Old Testament, feasts and festivals were occasions of joy. They were times for thanking God for blessings and granting relief to the poor and oppressed. They were often accompanied by singing, instrumental music, dancing, elaborate meals, and sacrifices. Depending on the nature and the requirements of the occasion, they were celebrated either at a sanctuary or at a person’s home. Examples were, the weekly Sabbath, the Year of Jubilee, Passover, Feast of Unleavened Bread and Feast of Booths to celebrate the harvest. Today Christians celebrate Easter, Christmas and the resurrection every Sunday.

Here’s a couple of texts you won’t hear quoted very often: Deuteronomy 14:23,26 Take it (the tithe) to the place the Lord your God will choose where he is to be worshiped. There, where you will be together with the Lord, eat the tenth of your grain, new wine, and oil, and eat the animals born first to your herds and flocks. Do this so that you will learn to respect the Lord your God always…Use the silver to buy anything you wish—cattle, sheep, wine, beer (strong drink), or anything you wish. Then you and your family will eat and celebrate there before the Lord your God.

Identify verses in Acts that show people being drawn to the church because of the celebration that existed among the Christians there.

Acts 2:12-13 They were all amazed and confused, asking each other, "What does this mean?" But others were making fun of them, saying, "They have had too much wine."

Acts 2:46 The believers met together in the Temple every day. They ate together in their homes, happy to share their food with joyful hearts.

These verses show that the early Christians were so excited on Pentecost that some people thought they were drunk and that their daily lifestyle was to eat together with gladness.

What similarities do we see between being under the influence of alcohol and being under the control of the Holy Spirit?

Ephesians 5:18 Do not be drunk with wine, which will ruin you, but be filled with the Spirit.

Acts 2:12-13 They were all amazed and confused, asking each other, "What does this mean?" But others were making fun of them, saying, "They have had too much wine."

A person "under the influence" of alcohol or the Holy Spirit will 1) Lose all inhibitions and 2) Become very expressive.

Being "under the influence" often reveals and magnifies the "true" person inside…angry people get very angry…happy people get very happy. When the inhibitions are down, "the real you" comes out!

How can it be proven from the Bible that God is "a party God?" "My servants shall shout for joy!" (Isaiah 65:14) "I have said these things to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete." (John 15:11)

Identify verses in Revelation that indicate that a party is happening there continuously.

Revelation 4:5-11 Lightning flashes and noises and thundering came from the throne. Before the throne seven lamps were burning, which are the seven spirits of God. Also before the throne there was something that looked like a sea of glass, clear like crystal. In the center and around the throne were four living creatures with eyes all over them, in front and in back. The first living creature was like a lion. The second was like a calf. The third had a face like a man. The fourth was like a flying eagle. Each of these four living creatures had six wings and was covered all over with eyes, inside and out. Day and night they never stop saying: "Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty. He was, he is, and he is coming." These living creatures give glory, honor, and thanks to the One who sits on the throne, who lives forever and ever. Then the twenty-four elders bow down before the One who sits on the throne, and they worship him who lives forever and ever. They put their crowns down before the throne and say: "You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, because you made all things. Everything existed and was made, because you wanted it."

Revelation 7:9-17 After the vision of these things I looked, and there was a great number of people, so many that no one could count them. They were from every nation, tribe, people, and language of the earth. They were all standing before the throne and before the Lamb, wearing white robes and holding palm branches in their hands. They were shouting in a loud voice, "Salvation belongs to our God, who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb." All the angels were standing around the throne and the elders and the four living creatures. They all bowed down on their faces before the throne and worshiped God, saying, "Amen! Praise, glory, wisdom, thanks, honor, power, and strength belong to our God forever and ever. Amen!" Then one of the elders asked me, "Who are these people dressed in white robes? Where did they come from?" I answered, "You know, sir." And the elder said to me, "These are the people who have come out of the great distress. They have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Because of this, they are before the throne of God. They worship him day and night in his temple. And the One who sits on the throne will be present with them. Those people will never be hungry again, and they will never be thirsty again. The sun will not hurt them, and no heat will burn them, because the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd. He will lead them to springs of water that give life. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes."

Sounds like a pretty big celebration to me!!!

Define happiness and joy. What are the differences between the two? Happiness depends on happenings and comes from the outside into us…it depends on external circumstances.

Joy is a gift from God to us…external circumstances have no effect on joy…it’s on the inside of us and cannot be affected by what happens on the outside. It’s a pleasure that flows from our innermost being…an inner sense of well-being and contentment produced by an awareness of our union with Jesus Christ.

Can you think of a time in your life when you experienced joy, but were not happy?

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